Maulana Jalāl ad-Dīn Muhammad Balkhi (Rumi)

“What Hurts You, Blesses You” – Rumi’s Wisdom on Darkness and Personal Growth

Rumi quote on darkness and blessing: "What hurts you, blesses you. Darkness is your candle."

What hurts you, blesses you. Darkness is your candle.

Rumi

آنچه تو را آزار می‌دهد، تو را برکت می‌دهد. تاریکی شمع توست.

این جمله نشان می‌دهد که رنج و سختی‌ها، اگرچه در ابتدا آزاردهنده هستند، اما می‌توانند به رشد معنوی و شخصیتی انسان منجر شوند. تاریکی نیز که نماد جهل و ناآگاهی است، می‌تواند فرصتی برای یافتن نور حقیقت و دانش درونی باشد.
این جمله به ما یاد می‌دهد که از سختی‌ها نترسیم و آن‌ها را به عنوان فرصتی برای رشد و تکامل ببینیم. همچنین، در تاریک‌ترین لحظات زندگی، باید به دنبال نور امید باشیم و بدانیم که درون هر تاریکی، نوری نهفته است.

مولانا

Он чизе ки туро озор медиҳад, туро баракат медиҳад. Торикӣ шами туст.

Ин ҷумла нишон медиҳад, ки ранҷ ва сахтиҳо, гарчанде ки дар ибтидо озордиҳанда бошанд, вале метавонанд ба рушди маънавӣ ва шахсии инсон мусоидат кунанд. Торикӣ низ ки рамзи ҷаҳл ва ноогоҳӣ аст, метавонад фурсате барои ёфтани нури ҳақиқат ва дониши дохилӣ бошад.
Ин ҷумла ба мо меомӯзад, ки аз сахтиҳо натарсем ва онҳоро ҳамчун фурсате барои рушду такмил бинем. Ҳамчунин, дар ториктарин лаҳзаҳои ҳаёт, бояд ба ҷустуҷӯи нури умед бошем ва бидонем, ки дар дохили ҳар торикие, нуре пинҳон аст.

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ما يؤذيك يباركك. الظلام هو شمعتك

هذه الجملة تبين أن الألم والمعاناة، على الرغم من أنها مؤلمة في البداية، إلا أنها يمكن أن تؤدي إلى النمو الروحي والشخصي للإنسان. والظلام، الذي يمثل الجهل والجهل، يمكن أن يكون فرصة للعثور على نور الحقيقة والمعرفة الداخلية.
هذه الجملة تعلمنا ألا نخاف من الصعوبات وأن نراها كفرصة للنمو والتطور. أيضًا، في أحلك لحظات الحياة، يجب أن نبحث عن نور الأمل وأن نعرف أن هناك نورًا مخفيًا في كل ظلام.

مولانا جلال الدین محمد الرومي

This quote by Rumi is a profound reflection on the paradoxical relationship between pain, growth, and the transformative power of hardship. Let’s break it down:

“What hurts you, blesses you.”

At first glance, this may sound counterintuitive. We generally associate “hurts” with something negative, something to avoid. However, Rumi invites us to reconsider this view by suggesting that the very experiences that cause us pain can also be sources of blessing.

  1. Pain as a Teacher: The “hurt” in life, whether it’s emotional, physical, or psychological, has the potential to be a deep teacher. Pain often forces us to confront aspects of ourselves or our lives that we otherwise avoid or ignore. It can challenge us to grow, transform, and evolve. For example, heartbreak may lead us to discover new reserves of strength, resilience, or wisdom. Grief can open the heart to greater empathy, while failure can teach us perseverance and humility. In this sense, the pain is a catalyst for personal and spiritual growth.
  2. The Blessing of Transformation: Rumi’s statement implies that through the process of being hurt or wounded, we are often propelled into new, higher levels of understanding. This could be a deeper understanding of the self, others, or life in general. The blessing, in this sense, is not the pain itself but the transformation it fosters. In Eastern philosophies like Buddhism, suffering is seen as an essential part of the path toward enlightenment—through suffering, one can transcend suffering.

“Darkness is your candle.”

This phrase builds upon the first idea by symbolizing darkness as a source of light, rather than something to be feared or avoided. Darkness often represents the unknown, confusion, despair, or difficult emotional states. Rumi, however, suggests that it is precisely within this darkness that light (wisdom, clarity, insight) can emerge.

  1. The Role of Darkness: Darkness is often seen as a symbol of spiritual ignorance or suffering in many traditions. But Rumi reframes this concept. Instead of seeing darkness as something negative, he proposes that it holds the potential to illuminate. When we face darkness—whether in the form of uncertainty, suffering, or challenge—we are forced to search for light, and this search leads to growth, deeper awareness, and spiritual awakening.
  2. Light Within the Darkness: “Your candle” refers to a source of light that can guide you through the darkness. In many spiritual traditions, a “candle” symbolizes wisdom, insight, or truth. Rumi’s assertion is that it is in the very presence of darkness that we discover our own inner light, the light that illuminates the path forward, and allows us to transcend the obstacles we face. This inner light could be interpreted as the soul, higher consciousness, or deep inner wisdom. The darkness, rather than being a force that extinguishes the light, is the condition that fosters its discovery.
  3. The Necessity of Darkness for Growth: In the natural world, light cannot exist without darkness. The contrast between the two is what allows one to be recognized and appreciated. In the same way, our struggles, doubts, and challenges are what enable us to recognize and value our own strength, resilience, and clarity when it arises. Without the contrast of darkness, the light would not be so powerful or illuminating.

Uniting the Ideas

When combined, these two phrases suggest a profound spiritual insight: the painful, difficult, or uncertain moments in life are not merely obstacles to be endured—they are opportunities for awakening. The pain you experience can lead to blessings, and the darkness you encounter can be the very source of your illumination. Rumi invites us to look at life’s challenges as opportunities for deepening wisdom rather than as things to avoid or resist.

This wisdom is particularly potent in spiritual or philosophical traditions that view the human experience as a process of continual transformation and realization. Rumi’s message is a call to embrace life in all its facets—its light and its dark—with the understanding that both are part of a greater whole, and both contribute to our growth and enlightenment.

In sum, Rumi’s quote suggests that by accepting the difficult, painful, and dark aspects of life, we open ourselves to the blessings and the light they bring. It’s about the integration of opposites: we are both broken and whole, lost and found, hurt and healed. The path to wisdom and enlightenment is found in the very embrace of these contradictions.

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